Palma (with mic) addressing her fellow mothers in Saringit ti Laoag group |
Mother’s Day in Hong Kong started out fine and sunny in the morning, but dark and rainy in the afternoon. Despite the abrupt change in the weather, many families dared not skip celebrating one of the most joyous occasions in the city.
Queues were seen
forming early in flower shops, as family members rushed to buy their moms’
favorite blooms to show their love and appreciation.
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By mid-day, the crowds had flocked to restaurants, and according to reports, the boost in patronage made many eateries reach around 90% capacity, the biggest since the pandemic.
Many other
families had chosen to celebrate across the border that by early evening big
crowds gathered at various ports of entry, including the one in Futian and
Shenzhen Bay.
Ptra Edelyn Vallo leads honorees at the Jesus the Living God church |
Several organizations did not miss the chance to celebrate those among them who made the brave decision to go abroad so they could provide a better future for their children.
Among them was
the Saringit ti Laoag City Association of Hong Kong, which held its party on
the rooftop of Queensway building in Admiralty.
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According to their
guest speaker, Marites Palma of Social Justice for Migrant Workers, many other
organizations celebrated Mother’s Day at the same venue.
Palma told her
fellow mothers that they should practice self-love sometimes, and not be
consumed by their desire to provide well for the family they left behind.
“Once in a while pasayahin din nila ang
kanilang sarili. Bumili sila ng damit, at kumain sa restaurant,” said
Palma, who is herself a mother to a daughter who just graduated from college.
(They should please themselves once in a while. Buy a dress, eat in a
restaurant).
She also advised
them strongly about standing up for their children who suffer abuse of any
kind, even at the hands of their other parent.
Palma gave
examples of what she called “ulirang ina” or exemplary mothers by calling on
three members of the group who managed to send all their children to school,
even if in the process they had stayed in Hong Kong far longer than they had
intended.
One of the
sharers had worked in the city for 34 years, the other, 24 years; and the last,
10 years.
“Soon, magpo for good na sila,” Palma
reported quite happily. (Soon, they will be going home for good).
Palma's daughter, Levi, wrote this sweet Mother's Day message for her mother |
One big
celebration that did not materialize was the one that Gabriela Hong Kong, a
foremost advocate of migrant women’s rights, had planned to hold starting at
4pm on Chater Road.
Gabriela chair
Shiela Bonifacio said in her invitation that it was to honor “the greatest
mothers” among migrants.
But apart from
the rain and the dark clouds that formed across most parts of the city in the
afternoon, a bigger problem loomed. Dolores Balladares, one of the honorees and
chair of United Filipinos in Hong Kong, suddenly started experiencing pain and numbness
in her left arm that Bonifacio was compelled to call an ambulance to take her
to the hospital.
Luckily,
Balladares recovered after just a few hours, and has since been escorted back
home to rest.