Consul Deric Atienza handed the Consulate's plaque of appreciation to Ching on Feb 3, the day she went home for good |
Up until the day before she was to return home for good in the
At the last minute, her employers for the last 12 years of
her stay in Hong Kong decided to throw a
party, and Ching did not think twice about canceling a previously arranged
farewell dinner so she could do their bidding.
“Nakiusap na i-train ko yung kapalit ko,” said Ching, with
nary a trace of annoyance in her voice. “Tinuruan kong gumawa ng Hainan chicken.”
Still, she was gratified when on leaving their house for the
last time, her male employer, a lawyer, bid her goodbye with tears in his eyes.
He reportedly said, “We will never find another one like you.”
Ching shows off her newest award to BSK members on the Admiralty bridge where they hang out |
Indeed, her dedication to work - and passion for helping
fellow migrants - made Ching, who decided to go home for good on Feb 3, a month
after turning 65 years old, one of the most exemplary overseas Filipino workers
to have served in Hong Kong.
Ching is the recipient of two top awards from the Philippine
government, the Bagong Bayani presidential award in 1999, and the Bayani
Cagayanos award presented by the Overseas Workers Welfare Administration and
the local government in Tuguegarao
City in 2001.
She also remembers receiving some sort of a public service
award from former President Fidel V. Ramos in the 1990s, but when pressed for
more information, just shrugged it off, like it was not that important.
This remarkable humility was another trait that endeared
Ching to many in the community. Despite her string of achievements which many Filcom
leaders could only aspire for, Ching never threw her weight around.
And, while she may have been called “Bossing” by many of her
friends, it was more a term of endearment than an acknowledgment of superiority
because Ching dirtied her hands along with everyone else when it came to work.
She was legendary for not taking phone calls, much less chat
via social media, while attending to the needs of her employers and their three
grown-up sons, all of whom became lawyers like their father when Ching was
already part of their household.
She was the only help in a huge Taikoo Shing flat which had
two floors and a rooftop, which meant she had to do everything, from cleaning
to cooking and washing clothes.
“Nag ha handwash pa yan,” said her friend Cristina, who is
clearly in awe of the veteran migrant.
Another group close to Ching's heart is Card HK, which provides financial literacy and livelihood training to OFWs |
Indeed, Ching was from a vanishing breed of Filipino
domestic workers in Hong Kong who are so
focused on their work that they do not fritter time away on Facebook or
chatting with friends.
Luckily, Ching had loyal friends who willingly helped her
set up an email account, worked on her organization’s logo, and typed out her
solicitation letters the few times she decided to hold an event.
Outside of her employer’s home, Ching was equally
unstoppable in the various roles she assumed to help serve her fellow migrant
workers.
She was founding president of Balikatan sa Kaunlaran Hong
Kong Council, a provider of livelihood training for migrants; and a financial
literacy and livelihood trainor for Card HK Foundation.
As if these didn’t make her busy enough, Ching often
volunteered for projects ran by the Philippine Consulate and the Philippine
Overseas Labor Office, and attended many livelihood courses offered by various
groups. These included the six-month long Leadership and Social
Entrepreneurship program for migrant Filipinos offered by the Ateneo School of
Government.
Ching’s swan swong was the realization of her long-held
dream of holding a livelihood fair on Chater
Road last November, where various groups
providing skills training to OFWs displayed their products.
No less than Consul General Antonio A. Morales and Labor
Attache Jalilo dela Torre spent the whole morning with Ching’s BSK, a clear
proof of how much her work for the community was valued by even the country’s
top representatives here.
The last award she received was a plaque of appreciation
from ConGen Morales, which cited Ching’s support for the Consulate’s various
projects, and her “invaluable contribution to the upgrading of skills of
Filipino Community members in Hong Kong …”
Ching first came to Hong Kong
in 1985, after realizing that her management degree and job as bookkeeper in a
government agency could mean her compromising her ideals just to pacify some
officials who expected her to fiddle with the books.
After working uninterrupted for 20 years, she headed home when
her older brother Peter decided to run as mayor in their hometown of Enrile in
Cagayan, so she could help in his campaign.
Peter won by a landslide but managed to serve only briefly,
as he was murdered by a political rival. That made Ching fear for her own
safety.
Despondent and wanting to help provide for the large brood
her brother had left behind, Ching made her way back to Hong Kong in early
2007, just over a year since her return home.
As with many of those who succeed because of hard work, Ching
managed to turn her life around again. She was able to send six of her nieces
and nephews through college and buy some real properties, including an
apartment row and a house in Laguna, from her earnings as an OFW.
Despite some misgivings, she also helped bring over to Hong Kong some of her nieces, all college graduates, who
decided to follow her journey as a migrant. A nephew who had gone all the way
to Afghanistan
in search of work, is now reportedly earning well enough to take over the job
of supporting his siblings.
While she may have gone home for good, Ching is not done doing
projects. For one, there is that cleaning service business hatched up among her
classmates at Ateneo’s LSE program that is waiting to be pursued back in Manila .
Along with her live-in partner for the last couple of years,
Ching is also looking at starting her own livelihood projects in Laguna, which
could be partly funded by her share in the sale of some ancestral properties in
Cagayan.
Serving her in good stead is her frugal ways, which means
the long service pay she had collected from her employers and deposited
directly into her bank account in the Philippines would go a long way.
It would seem that life is all set for Ching, after all the
hard work she did working away from home for the past 32 years – but not quite.
“Ma mi-miss ko ito,” she says, her hand sweeping across the
happy groups of migrants camped at her group’s favorite haunt on a bridge in
Admiralty.
They, in turn, would surely miss her more. Ching’s work
ethic, humility and passion for helping others made her one of a rare breed of
migrants, the ones who will long be remembered by many in the community.