Margie shares a happy home with young Isabella |
(This article from the Mission for Migrant Workers’ newsletter tells the story of Margie and her employers, the Ho family, with whom she won the MFMW’s ‘Happy Homes’ award. This symbolizes that the household fulfills the 10 criteria set by the non-government organization for a truly harmonious relationship between a migrant worker and her employers.)
Amongst the many homes of Hong Kong, nestled in an
apartment building, surrounded by two dogs, a 3-year-old girl, and her loving
parents, is Margie Mendoza.
Margie has been a migrant worker for 10 years, in
the UAE (United Arab Emirates) as well as KSA (Kingdom of Saudi Arabia) and in
Hong Kong, where she has gone through four households before finally feeling
peace of mind working with the Ho family.
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Margie helps the family out with regular household chores such as laundry and cooking, as well as looking after their family dogs Mocha and Pearl, but her main focus is her employers’ young daughter, Isabelle.
Margie joined the Ho couple right before the birth
of their daughter, and was an integral part in the first-time parents’ lives as
she supported them in taking care of her, and taught them with her rich
experience.
“I feel really at home with them. They treat me as
family. They are very kind and humble. They respect me as a human being. I was
really treated fairly and with understanding. I can express myself and I have
freedom to choose and to connect with my family. They accept me for who I am,”
Margie expressed.
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“This family puts effort into understanding me, and
my family in the Philippines— if we have a situation they are always willing to
help. They never forget to celebrate my birthday and on my son’s birthday, they
give him gifts.”
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Margie’s employer, Lucia Wong, corroborated Margie’s
statement, with some of their good memories being their bonding time with
Margie’s family. “We really enjoy learning about Margie’s family in the
Philippines, and saying hi and chatting with them during video-calls. We love
sending gifts to them and seeing photos and videos of them, as well as getting
updates on them.”
Another one of Wong’s good memories with Margie has
been the delicious meals she makes for them, as well as the baked goods she
creates for special occasions.. “Margie enjoys cooking and we have enjoyed many
delicious meals and desserts as a result, putting on the pounds too!”
Margie’s employers have also described their
disappointment towards the mistreatment of migrant domestic workers in Hong
Kong. “We are disgusted, disappointed, and concerned – Hong Kong is a developed
international city,” Wong said. “We are quite embarrassed to know that this
could be done by Hong Kong people, or that it’s happening in Hong Kong.”
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Both Margie and Wong have given suggestions to other
families as to how to create a Happy Home.
“You have to ensure there’s open communication,
trust, and honesty on all fronts,” Wong said. “Treat each other as you would
want to be treated, and ensure there is fair treatment and foster a positive
working relationship to create a harmonious environment for both the family and
the helped," Wong continued.
“The best thing is good communication between the
employer and employee and trust towards each other so you will have a smooth
and strong relationship for the future while working with them,” Margie added. “I’m
very happy and thankful and I’m so proud to my employer and they deserve to be
a Happy Home Family. Thank you is not enough for this family, that's why I give
my best to them.”
Lastly, Margie and Wong have both expressed their
gratitude towards each other for the love and support they have received
mutually over the years.
“They give a chance for a migrant domestic worker
like me to find a Happy Home with them,” Margie shared. “I never feel like I’m
far from my family in the Philippines and they give me hope to continue my
dream of my family having a better future. Not everyone is lucky like me to
find a family that will become your family in heart.”
For her part, Wong said: “Thank you, Margie, for all
your hard work and efforts in ensuring that our family is well taken care of.
We truly appreciate all that you do and are so grateful to have you with us!
Cheers to many more years together!”
(Visit
the Facebook page, Mission for Migrant Workers, to learn more about Happy Homes HK)